Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You Faux Leather Spreader Bar

Spread and Bound

This bar is a cross between a spreader bar and a hog tie bar with the ability to use it on the wrists or ankles or both together. I'm 5 foot 8 and a size 20 (give or take) and if my ankles are attached to the side of the bar my legs are just over shoulder width apart. This is quite a comfortable binding position for a spreader bar, so ideal for longer term bondage. As the bar has the option of binding the legs and wrists at the same time, you can make a spread-open hog-tie type position where you lie on your front and have your legs and wrists tied spread behind you, which leaves you open to multiple possibilities. The connections feel strong and like they would hold up to a struggle or pressure. The material feels nice against the skin and the whole item looks like it's well made and expensive. The clips are different but easy to use and release in a hurry if necessary. Traditionally I would choose a spreader bar with the option for adjustable length, and I almost feel like spreader isn't the best word to describe this and would describe it as more of a multi purpose bondage bar due to the multiple options. For example, I also found the bar can be used to connect a D-ring on the back of a collar to the loop of an anal hook. The item doesn't come with cuffs which is preferable for me as I have a nice set I prefer, but be aware that cuffs (or the rope skills to make ankle/wrist ties) will be needed to use this. The brown faux leather fits in nicely with other items in this collection as well as going nicely with some of the Coco de Mer items if you wish to make a truly luxurious bondage kit. The overall size of the bar makes it easy to store away discreetly. I feel like it's quite versatile to a selection of uses without looking overtly intimidating. Overall, I really like the options that this bondage bar gives. The look and feel of the material is very well executed and it feels like it's built to last. I think it's a nice piece of kit for bondage newbies and experts alike.

Spread me

Is it just me or does anyone else order Fifty Shades products and it just instantly turns you on? I'm obsessed with Fifty Shades , but even more obsessed with this range of products. I've previously owned spreader bars but they aren't a patch on this. Once the item arrived it came in a envelope sleeve, with the metal wrapped in brown tissue paper. The smell of leather instantly hits you. I spend the first five minutes admiring the bar while inhaling the fresh leather. The bar is shorter than I thought, and very light weight but it's so strong and sturdy. Uses it was just as good at looking and smelling it. The leather wrap stops the cold metal from touching your skin, which is ideal for these colder nights. We used it in a range of positions was easy to grab hold of and maneuver. It comes complete with two clips at either end of the bar making it endless for positions. Can be used with hands, feet or both. Easy clips for fast fastenings. High quality, easy to clean, and if I havent already said it smells amazing, hah! It looks classy and sleek. I would most definitely recommend.

Fifty Ways To Play

If you’ve been drawn to this item then I’m sure you’ll be all too familiar with that famous submissive scene from Fifty Shades Darker. I myself am not new to bondage and BDSM and I’m always looking for new ways to satiate my desires of being held captive in complete submission. When I saw this new Fifty Shades Of Grey Spreader Bar arrive to Lovehoney, I knew this would be coming straight in my own personal Red Room. But why choose a Spreader Bar? For me, the psychological thrill of complete and utter submission, being bound and 'forced' to receive erotic pleasure - or just as often denied it - sends me silly. Having my legs mandatorily spread and firmly held wide apart leaves me uncontrollably - and quite vulnerably - totally exposed and completely at my lover’s mercy, which I can tell you is spine-tinglingly erotic, not to mention it shows and builds trust with a partner. When ordering this I was very aware this item would be large and lengthy - always a worry when purchasing erotic equipment like this, but I can assure you the item arrived in the usual inconspicuous, exceptionally quick and problem free manner. The bar is presented firstly in a plain brown envelope style sleeve with Fifty Shades printing. Within, it's gifted to you in a gorgeous and quite unrevealing black satin drawstring bag, again printed with Fifty Shades Of Grey in silver. The bars construction is metal, coated and studded in luxurious black faux leather. I’m not the biggest leather lover - I know, shocking for a bondage babe right? But I have to say it visually ticks every box and more. The appearance and build quality of this instrument is stunning. It’s not as weighty as I’d have liked, yet it still feels both substantial and strong and it screams sexual submission. The four brass clips at the ends are studded to the bar and offer the option for not only your ankles to be restrained, but also your wrists bound too - trust me, laying on your back with your arms held to your spread and shackled ankles is to die for. The clips themselves feel relentlessly strong - I’ve really been pulling at them fiercely - and are simple to operate, even with heavily lubed hands. Unlike some other Spreader-Bars, the width of this is not adjustable, but comfort isn’t always the name of the game in this genre of sex-play. That being said, the bar itself is a tame length at 22". I’m a 5'8 girl and for me it’s just about right, although I would have loved the option to be spread much wider than this. I can, however, also use this comfortably bound to my knees to offer that wider spread I crave and a whole different variation of revealing exposure and access. The only real downside I’ve found to this item is it doesn’t come with its own cuffs. This isn’t a big issue for me. I’ve got more cuffs and restraints than the Tower Of London Museum, but this is something to be considered if you’re a novice to bondage and BDSM. Fortunately, Lovehoney sell many varieties of ankle and wrist cuffs that will compatibly clip straight to this bar. In summery, even if you’re a beginner to bondage, I cannot recommend this enough. For some, the idea of this may seem a little daunting, but if the thought of being restrained, bound and fully exposed in thrilling vulnerability like this has awakened the kink queen inside you, and you want to step things up from you basic hand cuffs or bed restraints, then this spreader bar is undoubtedly the risqué route for you. I assure you, the possibilities of this item are only limited by your imagination and pleasure thresholds...

Spread and Bound

This bar is a cross between a spreader bar and a hog tie bar with the ability to use it on the wrists or ankles or both together. I'm 5 foot 8 and a size 20 (give or take) and if my ankles are attached to the side of the bar my legs are just over shoulder width apart. This is quite a comfortable binding position for a spreader bar, so ideal for longer term bondage. As the bar has the option of binding the legs and wrists at the same time you can make a spread open hog tie type position where you lie on your front and have your legs and wrists tied spread behind you which leaves you open to multiple possibilities. The connections feel strong and like they would hold up to a struggle or pressure. The material feels nice against the skin and the whole item looks like it's well made and expensive. The clips are different but easy to use and release in a hurry if necessary. Traditionally I would choose a spreader bar with the option for adjustable length, and I almost feel like spreader isn't the best word to describe this and would describe it as more of a multi purpose bondage bar due to the multiple options. For example I also found the bar can be used to connect a D ring on the back of a collar to the loop of an anal hook. The item doesn't come with cuffs which is preferable for me as I have a nice set I prefer, but be aware that cuffs (or the rope skills to make ankle/wrist ties) will be needed to use this. The brown faux leather fits in nicely with other items in this collection as well as going nicely with some of the Coco de mer items if you wish to make a truly luxurious bondage kit. The overall size of the bar makes it easy to store away discreetly. I feel like it's quite versatile to a selection of uses without looking overtly intimidating. Overall I really like the options that this bondage bar gives. The look and feel of the material is very well executed and it feels like it's built to last. I think it's a nice piece of kit for bondage newbies and experts alike.

Spread me

Is it just me or does anyone else order fifty shades products and it just instantly turns you on? I'm obsessed with fifty shades , but even more obsessed with this range of products. I've previously owned spreader bars but they dont have a patch on this. Once the item arrived it came in a envelope sleeve, with the metal wrapped in brown tissue paper. The smell of leather instantly hits you. I spend the first five minutes admiring the bar while inhaling the fresh leather. The bar is shorter than I though, and very light weight but it's so strong and sterdy. Uses it was just as good at looking and smelling it. The leather wrap stops the cold metal from touching your skin, which is ideal for these colder nights. We used it in a range of positions was easy to grab hold of and maneuver.It comes complete with two clips at either end of the bar making it endless for positions. Can be used with hands, feet or both. Easy clips for fast fastenings. High quality, easy to clean, and if I havent already said it smells amazing hah! It looks classy and sleek. I would most definitely reccomend.

Fifty Ways To Play

If you’ve been drawn to this item then I’m sure you’ll be all too familiar with that famous submissive scene from Fifty Shades Darker. I myself am not new to bondage and BDSM and I’m always looking for new ways to satiate my desires of being held captive in complete submission. When I saw this new Fifty Shades Of Grey Spreader Bar arrive to Lovehoney, I knew this would be coming straight in my own personal Red Room.But why choose a Spreader Bar?For me, the psychological thrill of complete and utter submission, being bound and ‘forced’ to receive erotic pleasure - or just as often denied it - sends me silly. Having my legs mandatorily spread and firmly held wide apart leaves me uncontrollably - and quite vulnerably - totally exposed and completely at my lover’s mercy, which I can tell you is spine-tinglingly erotic, not to mention it shows and builds trust with a partner.When ordering this I was very aware this item would be large and lengthy - always a worry when purchasing erotic equipment like this, but I can assure you the item arrived in the usual inconspicuous, exceptionally quick and problem free manner. The bar is presented firstly in a plain brown envelope style sleeve with Fifty Shades printing. Within, its gifted to you in a gorgeous and quite unrevealing black satin drawstring bag, again printed with Fifty Shades Of Grey in silver.The bars construction is metal, coated and studded in luxurious black faux leather. I’m not the biggest leather lover - I know, shocking for a bondage babe right? but I have to say it visually ticks every box and more. The appearance and build quality of this instrument is stunning. It’s not as weighty as I’d have liked yet it still feels both subbstantial and strong and it screams sexual submission.The four brass clips at the ends are studded to the bar and offer the option for not only your ankles to be restrained, but also your wrists bound too - trust me, laying on your back with your arms held to your spread and shackled ankles is to die for. The clips themselves feel relentlessly strong - I’ve really been pulling at them fiercely - and are simple to operate, even with heavily lubed hands.Unlike some other Spreader-Bars, the width of this is not adjustable, but comfort isn’t always the name of the game in this genre of sex-play. That being said, the bar itself is a tame length at 22”, I’m a 5’8 girl and for me it’s just about right although I would have loved the option to be spread much wider than this. I can however also use this comfortably bound to my knees to offer that wider spread I crave and a whole different variation of revealing exposure and access.The only real downside I’ve found to this item is it doesn’t come with its own cuffs. This isn’t a big issue for me, I’ve got more cuffs and restraints than the Tower Of London Museum, but this is something to be considered if you’re a novice to bondage and BDSM. Fortunately, Lovehoney sell many varieties of ankle and wrist cuffs that will compatibly clip straight to this bar.In summery, even if you’re a beginner to bondage, I cannot recommend this enough. For some, the idea of this may seem a little daunting, but if the thought of being restrained, bound and fully exposed in thrilling vulnerability like this has awakened the kink queen inside you, and you want to step things up from you basic hand cuffs or bed restraints, then this spreader bar is undoubtedly the risqué route for you.I assure you, the possibilities of this item are only limited by your imagination and pleasure thresholds...

Spread and Bound

This bar is a cross between a spreader bar and a hog tie bar with the ability to use it on the wrists or ankles or both together. I'm 5 foot 8 and a size 20 (give or take) and if my ankles are attached to the side of the bar my legs are just over shoulder width apart. This is quite a comfortable binding position for a spreader bar, so ideal for longer term bondage. As the bar has the option of binding the legs and wrists at the same time you can make a spread open hog tie type position where you lie on your front and have your legs and wrists tied spread behind you which leaves you open to multiple possibilities. The connections feel strong and like they would hold up to a struggle or pressure. The material feels nice against the skin and the whole item looks like it's well made and expensive. The clips are different but easy to use and release in a hurry if necessary. Traditionally I would choose a spreader bar with the option for adjustable length, and I almost feel like spreader isn't the best word to describe this and would describe it as more of a multi purpose bondage bar due to the multiple options. For example I also found the bar can be used to connect a D ring on the back of a collar to the loop of an anal hook. The item doesn't come with cuffs which is preferable for me as I have a nice set I prefer, but be aware that cuffs (or the rope skills to make ankle/wrist ties) will be needed to use this. The brown faux leather fits in nicely with other items in this collection as well as going nicely with some of the Coco de mer items if you wish to make a truly luxurious bondage kit. The overall size of the bar makes it easy to store away discreetly. I feel like it's quite versatile to a selection of uses without looking overtly intimidating. Overall I really like the options that this bondage bar gives. The look and feel of the material is very well executed and it feels like it's built to last. I think it's a nice piece of kit for bondage newbies and experts alike.

Spread me

Is it just me or does anyone else order fifty shades products and it just instantly turns you on? I'm obsessed with fifty shades , but even more obsessed with this range of products. I've previously owned spreader bars but they dont have a patch on this. Once the item arrived it came in a envelope sleeve, with the metal wrapped in brown tissue paper. The smell of leather instantly hits you. I spend the first five minutes admiring the bar while inhaling the fresh leather. The bar is shorter than I though, and very light weight but it's so strong and sterdy. Uses it was just as good at looking and smelling it. The leather wrap stops the cold metal from touching your skin, which is ideal for these colder nights. We used it in a range of positions was easy to grab hold of and maneuver.It comes complete with two clips at either end of the bar making it endless for positions. Can be used with hands, feet or both. Easy clips for fast fastenings. High quality, easy to clean, and if I havent already said it smells amazing hah! It looks classy and sleek. I would most definitely reccomend.

Fifty Ways To Play

If you’ve been drawn to this item then I’m sure you’ll be all too familiar with that famous submissive scene from Fifty Shades Darker. I myself am not new to bondage and BDSM and I’m always looking for new ways to satiate my desires of being held captive in complete submission. When I saw this new Fifty Shades Of Grey Spreader Bar arrive to Lovehoney, I knew this would be coming straight in my own personal Red Room.But why choose a Spreader Bar?For me, the psychological thrill of complete and utter submission, being bound and ‘forced’ to receive erotic pleasure - or just as often denied it - sends me silly. Having my legs mandatorily spread and firmly held wide apart leaves me uncontrollably - and quite vulnerably - totally exposed and completely at my lover’s mercy, which I can tell you is spine-tinglingly erotic, not to mention it shows and builds trust with a partner.When ordering this I was very aware this item would be large and lengthy - always a worry when purchasing erotic equipment like this, but I can assure you the item arrived in the usual inconspicuous, exceptionally quick and problem free manner. The bar is presented firstly in a plain brown envelope style sleeve with Fifty Shades printing. Within, its gifted to you in a gorgeous and quite unrevealing black satin drawstring bag, again printed with Fifty Shades Of Grey in silver.The bars construction is metal, coated and studded in luxurious black faux leather. I’m not the biggest leather lover - I know, shocking for a bondage babe right? but I have to say it visually ticks every box and more. The appearance and build quality of this instrument is stunning. It’s not as weighty as I’d have liked yet it still feels both subbstantial and strong and it screams sexual submission.The four brass clips at the ends are studded to the bar and offer the option for not only your ankles to be restrained, but also your wrists bound too - trust me, laying on your back with your arms held to your spread and shackled ankles is to die for. The clips themselves feel relentlessly strong - I’ve really been pulling at them fiercely - and are simple to operate, even with heavily lubed hands.Unlike some other Spreader-Bars, the width of this is not adjustable, but comfort isn’t always the name of the game in this genre of sex-play. That being said, the bar itself is a tame length at 22”, I’m a 5’8 girl and for me it’s just about right although I would have loved the option to be spread much wider than this. I can however also use this comfortably bound to my knees to offer that wider spread I crave and a whole different variation of revealing exposure and access.The only real downside I’ve found to this item is it doesn’t come with its own cuffs. This isn’t a big issue for me, I’ve got more cuffs and restraints than the Tower Of London Museum, but this is something to be considered if you’re a novice to bondage and BDSM. Fortunately, Lovehoney sell many varieties of ankle and wrist cuffs that will compatibly clip straight to this bar.In summery, even if you’re a beginner to bondage, I cannot recommend this enough. For some, the idea of this may seem a little daunting, but if the thought of being restrained, bound and fully exposed in thrilling vulnerability like this has awakened the kink queen inside you, and you want to step things up from you basic hand cuffs or bed restraints, then this spreader bar is undoubtedly the risqué route for you.I assure you, the possibilities of this item are only limited by your imagination and pleasure thresholds...

Spread and Bound

This bar is a cross between a spreader bar and a hog tie bar with the ability to use it on the wrists or ankles or both together. I'm 5 foot 8 and a size 20 (give or take) and if my ankles are attached to the side of the bar my legs are just over shoulder width apart. This is quite a comfortable binding position for a spreader bar, so ideal for longer term bondage. As the bar has the option of binding the legs and wrists at the same time you can make a spread open hog tie type position where you lie on your front and have your legs and wrists tied spread behind you which leaves you open to multiple possibilities. The connections feel strong and like they would hold up to a struggle or pressure. The material feels nice against the skin and the whole item looks like it's well made and expensive. The clips are different but easy to use and release in a hurry if necessary. Traditionally I would choose a spreader bar with the option for adjustable length, and I almost feel like spreader isn't the best word to describe this and would describe it as more of a multi purpose bondage bar due to the multiple options. For example I also found the bar can be used to connect a D ring on the back of a collar to the loop of an anal hook. The item doesn't come with cuffs which is preferable for me as I have a nice set I prefer, but be aware that cuffs (or the rope skills to make ankle/wrist ties) will be needed to use this. The brown faux leather fits in nicely with other items in this collection as well as going nicely with some of the Coco de mer items if you wish to make a truly luxurious bondage kit. The overall size of the bar makes it easy to store away discreetly. I feel like it's quite versatile to a selection of uses without looking overtly intimidating. Overall I really like the options that this bondage bar gives. The look and feel of the material is very well executed and it feels like it's built to last. I think it's a nice piece of kit for bondage newbies and experts alike.

Spread me

Is it just me or does anyone else order fifty shades products and it just instantly turns you on? I'm obsessed with fifty shades , but even more obsessed with this range of products. I've previously owned spreader bars but they dont have a patch on this. Once the item arrived it came in a envelope sleeve, with the metal wrapped in brown tissue paper. The smell of leather instantly hits you. I spend the first five minutes admiring the bar while inhaling the fresh leather. The bar is shorter than I though, and very light weight but it's so strong and sterdy. Uses it was just as good at looking and smelling it. The leather wrap stops the cold metal from touching your skin, which is ideal for these colder nights. We used it in a range of positions was easy to grab hold of and maneuver.It comes complete with two clips at either end of the bar making it endless for positions. Can be used with hands, feet or both. Easy clips for fast fastenings. High quality, easy to clean, and if I havent already said it smells amazing hah! It looks classy and sleek. I would most definitely reccomend.

Fifty Ways To Play

If you’ve been drawn to this item then I’m sure you’ll be all too familiar with that famous submissive scene from Fifty Shades Darker. I myself am not new to bondage and BDSM and I’m always looking for new ways to satiate my desires of being held captive in complete submission. When I saw this new Fifty Shades Of Grey Spreader Bar arrive to Lovehoney, I knew this would be coming straight in my own personal Red Room.But why choose a Spreader Bar?For me, the psychological thrill of complete and utter submission, being bound and ‘forced’ to receive erotic pleasure - or just as often denied it - sends me silly. Having my legs mandatorily spread and firmly held wide apart leaves me uncontrollably - and quite vulnerably - totally exposed and completely at my lover’s mercy, which I can tell you is spine-tinglingly erotic, not to mention it shows and builds trust with a partner.When ordering this I was very aware this item would be large and lengthy - always a worry when purchasing erotic equipment like this, but I can assure you the item arrived in the usual inconspicuous, exceptionally quick and problem free manner. The bar is presented firstly in a plain brown envelope style sleeve with Fifty Shades printing. Within, its gifted to you in a gorgeous and quite unrevealing black satin drawstring bag, again printed with Fifty Shades Of Grey in silver.The bars construction is metal, coated and studded in luxurious black faux leather. I’m not the biggest leather lover - I know, shocking for a bondage babe right? but I have to say it visually ticks every box and more. The appearance and build quality of this instrument is stunning. It’s not as weighty as I’d have liked yet it still feels both subbstantial and strong and it screams sexual submission.The four brass clips at the ends are studded to the bar and offer the option for not only your ankles to be restrained, but also your wrists bound too - trust me, laying on your back with your arms held to your spread and shackled ankles is to die for. The clips themselves feel relentlessly strong - I’ve really been pulling at them fiercely - and are simple to operate, even with heavily lubed hands.Unlike some other Spreader-Bars, the width of this is not adjustable, but comfort isn’t always the name of the game in this genre of sex-play. That being said, the bar itself is a tame length at 22”, I’m a 5’8 girl and for me it’s just about right although I would have loved the option to be spread much wider than this. I can however also use this comfortably bound to my knees to offer that wider spread I crave and a whole different variation of revealing exposure and access.The only real downside I’ve found to this item is it doesn’t come with its own cuffs. This isn’t a big issue for me, I’ve got more cuffs and restraints than the Tower Of London Museum, but this is something to be considered if you’re a novice to bondage and BDSM. Fortunately, Lovehoney sell many varieties of ankle and wrist cuffs that will compatibly clip straight to this bar.In summery, even if you’re a beginner to bondage, I cannot recommend this enough. For some, the idea of this may seem a little daunting, but if the thought of being restrained, bound and fully exposed in thrilling vulnerability like this has awakened the kink queen inside you, and you want to step things up from you basic hand cuffs or bed restraints, then this spreader bar is undoubtedly the risqué route for you.I assure you, the possibilities of this item are only limited by your imagination and pleasure thresholds...

Spread and Bound

This bar is a cross between a spreader bar and a hog tie bar with the ability to use it on the wrists or ankles or both together. I'm 5 foot 8 and a size 20 (give or take) and if my ankles are attached to the side of the bar my legs are just over shoulder width apart. This is quite a comfortable binding position for a spreader bar, so ideal for longer term bondage. As the bar has the option of binding the legs and wrists at the same time you can make a spread open hog tie type position where you lie on your front and have your legs and wrists tied spread behind you which leaves you open to multiple possibilities. The connections feel strong and like they would hold up to a struggle or pressure. The material feels nice against the skin and the whole item looks like it's well made and expensive. The clips are different but easy to use and release in a hurry if necessary. Traditionally I would choose a spreader bar with the option for adjustable length, and I almost feel like spreader isn't the best word to describe this and would describe it as more of a multi purpose bondage bar due to the multiple options. For example I also found the bar can be used to connect a D ring on the back of a collar to the loop of an anal hook. The item doesn't come with cuffs which is preferable for me as I have a nice set I prefer, but be aware that cuffs (or the rope skills to make ankle/wrist ties) will be needed to use this. The brown faux leather fits in nicely with other items in this collection as well as going nicely with some of the Coco de mer items if you wish to make a truly luxurious bondage kit. The overall size of the bar makes it easy to store away discreetly. I feel like it's quite versatile to a selection of uses without looking overtly intimidating. Overall I really like the options that this bondage bar gives. The look and feel of the material is very well executed and it feels like it's built to last. I think it's a nice piece of kit for bondage newbies and experts alike.

Spread me

Is it just me or does anyone else order fifty shades products and it just instantly turns you on? I'm obsessed with fifty shades , but even more obsessed with this range of products. I've previously owned spreader bars but they dont have a patch on this. Once the item arrived it came in a envelope sleeve, with the metal wrapped in brown tissue paper. The smell of leather instantly hits you. I spend the first five minutes admiring the bar while inhaling the fresh leather. The bar is shorter than I though, and very light weight but it's so strong and sterdy. Uses it was just as good at looking and smelling it. The leather wrap stops the cold metal from touching your skin, which is ideal for these colder nights. We used it in a range of positions was easy to grab hold of and maneuver.It comes complete with two clips at either end of the bar making it endless for positions. Can be used with hands, feet or both. Easy clips for fast fastenings. High quality, easy to clean, and if I havent already said it smells amazing hah! It looks classy and sleek. I would most definitely reccomend.

Fifty Ways To Play

If you’ve been drawn to this item then I’m sure you’ll be all too familiar with that famous submissive scene from Fifty Shades Darker. I myself am not new to bondage and BDSM and I’m always looking for new ways to satiate my desires of being held captive in complete submission. When I saw this new Fifty Shades Of Grey Spreader Bar arrive to Lovehoney, I knew this would be coming straight in my own personal Red Room.But why choose a Spreader Bar?For me, the psychological thrill of complete and utter submission, being bound and ‘forced’ to receive erotic pleasure - or just as often denied it - sends me silly. Having my legs mandatorily spread and firmly held wide apart leaves me uncontrollably - and quite vulnerably - totally exposed and completely at my lover’s mercy, which I can tell you is spine-tinglingly erotic, not to mention it shows and builds trust with a partner.When ordering this I was very aware this item would be large and lengthy - always a worry when purchasing erotic equipment like this, but I can assure you the item arrived in the usual inconspicuous, exceptionally quick and problem free manner. The bar is presented firstly in a plain brown envelope style sleeve with Fifty Shades printing. Within, its gifted to you in a gorgeous and quite unrevealing black satin drawstring bag, again printed with Fifty Shades Of Grey in silver.The bars construction is metal, coated and studded in luxurious black faux leather. I’m not the biggest leather lover - I know, shocking for a bondage babe right? but I have to say it visually ticks every box and more. The appearance and build quality of this instrument is stunning. It’s not as weighty as I’d have liked yet it still feels both subbstantial and strong and it screams sexual submission.The four brass clips at the ends are studded to the bar and offer the option for not only your ankles to be restrained, but also your wrists bound too - trust me, laying on your back with your arms held to your spread and shackled ankles is to die for. The clips themselves feel relentlessly strong - I’ve really been pulling at them fiercely - and are simple to operate, even with heavily lubed hands.Unlike some other Spreader-Bars, the width of this is not adjustable, but comfort isn’t always the name of the game in this genre of sex-play. That being said, the bar itself is a tame length at 22”, I’m a 5’8 girl and for me it’s just about right although I would have loved the option to be spread much wider than this. I can however also use this comfortably bound to my knees to offer that wider spread I crave and a whole different variation of revealing exposure and access.The only real downside I’ve found to this item is it doesn’t come with its own cuffs. This isn’t a big issue for me, I’ve got more cuffs and restraints than the Tower Of London Museum, but this is something to be considered if you’re a novice to bondage and BDSM. Fortunately, Lovehoney sell many varieties of ankle and wrist cuffs that will compatibly clip straight to this bar.In summery, even if you’re a beginner to bondage, I cannot recommend this enough. For some, the idea of this may seem a little daunting, but if the thought of being restrained, bound and fully exposed in thrilling vulnerability like this has awakened the kink queen inside you, and you want to step things up from you basic hand cuffs or bed restraints, then this spreader bar is undoubtedly the risqué route for you.I assure you, the possibilities of this item are only limited by your imagination and pleasure thresholds...

Spread and Bound

This bar is a cross between a spreader bar and a hog tie bar with the ability to use it on the wrists or ankles or both together. I'm 5 foot 8 and a size 20 (give or take) and if my ankles are attached to the side of the bar my legs are just over shoulder width apart. This is quite a comfortable binding position for a spreader bar, so ideal for longer term bondage. As the bar has the option of binding the legs and wrists at the same time you can make a spread open hog tie type position where you lie on your front and have your legs and wrists tied spread behind you which leaves you open to multiple possibilities. The connections feel strong and like they would hold up to a struggle or pressure. The material feels nice against the skin and the whole item looks like it's well made and expensive. The clips are different but easy to use and release in a hurry if necessary. Traditionally I would choose a spreader bar with the option for adjustable length, and I almost feel like spreader isn't the best word to describe this and would describe it as more of a multi purpose bondage bar due to the multiple options. For example I also found the bar can be used to connect a D ring on the back of a collar to the loop of an anal hook. The item doesn't come with cuffs which is preferable for me as I have a nice set I prefer, but be aware that cuffs (or the rope skills to make ankle/wrist ties) will be needed to use this. The brown faux leather fits in nicely with other items in this collection as well as going nicely with some of the Coco de mer items if you wish to make a truly luxurious bondage kit. The overall size of the bar makes it easy to store away discreetly. I feel like it's quite versatile to a selection of uses without looking overtly intimidating. Overall I really like the options that this bondage bar gives. The look and feel of the material is very well executed and it feels like it's built to last. I think it's a nice piece of kit for bondage newbies and experts alike.

Spread me

Is it just me or does anyone else order fifty shades products and it just instantly turns you on? I'm obsessed with fifty shades , but even more obsessed with this range of products. I've previously owned spreader bars but they dont have a patch on this. Once the item arrived it came in a envelope sleeve, with the metal wrapped in brown tissue paper. The smell of leather instantly hits you. I spend the first five minutes admiring the bar while inhaling the fresh leather. The bar is shorter than I though, and very light weight but it's so strong and sterdy. Uses it was just as good at looking and smelling it. The leather wrap stops the cold metal from touching your skin, which is ideal for these colder nights. We used it in a range of positions was easy to grab hold of and maneuver.It comes complete with two clips at either end of the bar making it endless for positions. Can be used with hands, feet or both. Easy clips for fast fastenings. High quality, easy to clean, and if I havent already said it smells amazing hah! It looks classy and sleek. I would most definitely reccomend.

Fifty Ways To Play

If you’ve been drawn to this item then I’m sure you’ll be all too familiar with that famous submissive scene from Fifty Shades Darker. I myself am not new to bondage and BDSM and I’m always looking for new ways to satiate my desires of being held captive in complete submission. When I saw this new Fifty Shades Of Grey Spreader Bar arrive to Lovehoney, I knew this would be coming straight in my own personal Red Room.But why choose a Spreader Bar?For me, the psychological thrill of complete and utter submission, being bound and ‘forced’ to receive erotic pleasure - or just as often denied it - sends me silly. Having my legs mandatorily spread and firmly held wide apart leaves me uncontrollably - and quite vulnerably - totally exposed and completely at my lover’s mercy, which I can tell you is spine-tinglingly erotic, not to mention it shows and builds trust with a partner.When ordering this I was very aware this item would be large and lengthy - always a worry when purchasing erotic equipment like this, but I can assure you the item arrived in the usual inconspicuous, exceptionally quick and problem free manner. The bar is presented firstly in a plain brown envelope style sleeve with Fifty Shades printing. Within, its gifted to you in a gorgeous and quite unrevealing black satin drawstring bag, again printed with Fifty Shades Of Grey in silver.The bars construction is metal, coated and studded in luxurious black faux leather. I’m not the biggest leather lover - I know, shocking for a bondage babe right? but I have to say it visually ticks every box and more. The appearance and build quality of this instrument is stunning. It’s not as weighty as I’d have liked yet it still feels both subbstantial and strong and it screams sexual submission.The four brass clips at the ends are studded to the bar and offer the option for not only your ankles to be restrained, but also your wrists bound too - trust me, laying on your back with your arms held to your spread and shackled ankles is to die for. The clips themselves feel relentlessly strong - I’ve really been pulling at them fiercely - and are simple to operate, even with heavily lubed hands.Unlike some other Spreader-Bars, the width of this is not adjustable, but comfort isn’t always the name of the game in this genre of sex-play. That being said, the bar itself is a tame length at 22”, I’m a 5’8 girl and for me it’s just about right although I would have loved the option to be spread much wider than this. I can however also use this comfortably bound to my knees to offer that wider spread I crave and a whole different variation of revealing exposure and access.The only real downside I’ve found to this item is it doesn’t come with its own cuffs. This isn’t a big issue for me, I’ve got more cuffs and restraints than the Tower Of London Museum, but this is something to be considered if you’re a novice to bondage and BDSM. Fortunately, Lovehoney sell many varieties of ankle and wrist cuffs that will compatibly clip straight to this bar.In summery, even if you’re a beginner to bondage, I cannot recommend this enough. For some, the idea of this may seem a little daunting, but if the thought of being restrained, bound and fully exposed in thrilling vulnerability like this has awakened the kink queen inside you, and you want to step things up from you basic hand cuffs or bed restraints, then this spreader bar is undoubtedly the risqué route for you.I assure you, the possibilities of this item are only limited by your imagination and pleasure thresholds...

Fifty Ways To Play

If you’ve been drawn to this item then I’m sure you’ll be all too familiar with that famous submissive scene from Fifty Shades Darker. I myself am not new to bondage and BDSM and I’m always looking for new ways to satiate my desires of being held captive in complete submission. When I saw this new Fifty Shades Of Grey Spreader Bar arrive to Lovehoney, I knew this would be coming straight in my own personal Red Room.But why choose a Spreader Bar?For me, the psychological thrill of complete and utter submission, being bound and ‘forced’ to receive erotic pleasure - or just as often denied it - sends me silly. Having my legs mandatorily spread and firmly held wide apart leaves me uncontrollably - and quite vulnerably - totally exposed and completely at my lover’s mercy, which I can tell you is spine-tinglingly erotic, not to mention it shows and builds trust with a partner.When ordering this I was very aware this item would be large and lengthy - always a worry when purchasing erotic equipment like this, but I can assure you the item arrived in the usual inconspicuous, exceptionally quick and problem free manner. The bar is presented firstly in a plain brown envelope style sleeve with Fifty Shades printing. Within, its gifted to you in a gorgeous and quite unrevealing black satin drawstring bag, again printed with Fifty Shades Of Grey in silver.The bars construction is metal, coated and studded in luxurious black faux leather. I’m not the biggest leather lover - I know, shocking for a bondage babe right? but I have to say it visually ticks every box and more. The appearance and build quality of this instrument is stunning. It’s not as weighty as I’d have liked yet it still feels both subbstantial and strong and it screams sexual submission.The four brass clips at the ends are studded to the bar and offer the option for not only your ankles to be restrained, but also your wrists bound too - trust me, laying on your back with your arms held to your spread and shackled ankles is to die for. The clips themselves feel relentlessly strong - I’ve really been pulling at them fiercely - and are simple to operate, even with heavily lubed hands.Unlike some other Spreader-Bars, the width of this is not adjustable, but comfort isn’t always the name of the game in this genre of sex-play. That being said, the bar itself is a tame length at 22”, I’m a 5’8 girl and for me it’s just about right although I would have loved the option to be spread much wider than this. I can however also use this comfortably bound to my knees to offer that wider spread I crave and a whole different variation of revealing exposure and access.The only real downside I’ve found to this item is it doesn’t come with its own cuffs. This isn’t a big issue for me, I’ve got more cuffs and restraints than the Tower Of London Museum, but this is something to be considered if you’re a novice to bondage and BDSM. Fortunately, Lovehoney sell many varieties of ankle and wrist cuffs that will compatibly clip straight to this bar.In summery, even if you’re a beginner to bondage, I cannot recommend this enough. For some, the idea of this may seem a little daunting, but if the thought of being restrained, bound and fully exposed in thrilling vulnerability like this has awakened the kink queen inside you, and you want to step things up from you basic hand cuffs or bed restraints, then this spreader bar is undoubtedly the risqué route for you.I assure you, the possibilities of this item are only limited by your imagination and pleasure thresholds...

Fifty Ways To Play

If you’ve been drawn to this item then I’m sure you’ll be all too familiar with that famous submissive scene from Fifty Shades Darker. I myself am not new to bondage and BDSM and I’m always looking for new ways to satiate my desires of being held captive in complete submission. When I saw this new Fifty Shades Of Grey Spreader Bar arrive to Lovehoney, I knew this would be coming straight in my own personal Red Room.But why choose a Spreader Bar?For me, the psychological thrill of complete and utter submission, being bound and ‘forced’ to receive erotic pleasure - or just as often denied it - sends me silly. Having my legs mandatorily spread and firmly held wide apart leaves me uncontrollably - and quite vulnerably - totally exposed and completely at my lover’s mercy, which I can tell you is spine-tinglingly erotic, not to mention it shows and builds trust with a partner.When ordering this I was very aware this item would be large and lengthy - always a worry when purchasing erotic equipment like this, but I can assure you the item arrived in the usual inconspicuous, exceptionally quick and problem free manner. The bar is presented firstly in a plain brown envelope style sleeve with Fifty Shades printing. Within, its gifted to you in a gorgeous and quite unrevealing black satin drawstring bag, again printed with Fifty Shades Of Grey in silver.The bars construction is metal, coated and studded in luxurious black faux leather. I’m not the biggest leather lover - I know, shocking for a bondage babe right? but I have to say it visually ticks every box and more. The appearance and build quality of this instrument is stunning. It’s not as weighty as I’d have liked yet it still feels both subbstantial and strong and it screams sexual submission.The four brass clips at the ends are studded to the bar and offer the option for not only your ankles to be restrained, but also your wrists bound too - trust me, laying on your back with your arms held to your spread and shackled ankles is to die for. The clips themselves feel relentlessly strong - I’ve really been pulling at them fiercely - and are simple to operate, even with heavily lubed hands.Unlike some other Spreader-Bars, the width of this is not adjustable, but comfort isn’t always the name of the game in this genre of sex-play. That being said, the bar itself is a tame length at 22”, I’m a 5’8 girl and for me it’s just about right although I would have loved the option to be spread much wider than this. I can however also use this comfortably bound to my knees to offer that wider spread I crave and a whole different variation of revealing exposure and access.The only real downside I’ve found to this item is it doesn’t come with its own cuffs. This isn’t a big issue for me, I’ve got more cuffs and restraints than the Tower Of London Museum, but this is something to be considered if you’re a novice to bondage and BDSM. Fortunately, Lovehoney sell many varieties of ankle and wrist cuffs that will compatibly clip straight to this bar.In summery, even if you’re a beginner to bondage, I cannot recommend this enough. For some, the idea of this may seem a little daunting, but if the thought of being restrained, bound and fully exposed in thrilling vulnerability like this has awakened the kink queen inside you, and you want to step things up from you basic hand cuffs or bed restraints, then this spreader bar is undoubtedly the risqué route for you.I assure you, the possibilities of this item are only limited by your imagination and pleasure thresholds...