Purple Reins 12 Inch Thigh Spreader Bar

Awesome

Bought this to stop my wife shutting her legs whilst giving oral or just generally playing. She said it felt amazing and 100% stopped her from closing her legs, which made her orgasm bigger and better. Even for me knowing her legs are not going to close is a winner.

Must-Buy 100%

My OH purchased this to stop the inevitable vice of legs whilst receiving oral. Not only did it serve its purpose, but the sensation of the bar reminded me of why I was in such a position, which just excited me even more. The OH agreed my orgasms were more intense as he could continue without me trying to stop him.

Does what it says on the tin

I bought this to stop me from closing my legs when I’m having too much fun. I’d looked at the reviews before purchasing and saw that people had commented about the straps falling down when stood up but as I only use them laid down I cannot comment on that. They work brilliantly when laid down! The bar in the middle stops me for being able to close my legs and lets my OH continue without me moving! It’s a great addition to our growing sex toy and bondage collection!

Fun and effective

Great quality, very sturdy. The look is quite a nice change from the traditional red or black in this area and a nice shade of purple. I bought this with another spreader of the same set to prevent my partner from being able to squirm her knees or ankles and I think they work well together.

Exciting

Received my order this morning. Was unsure what to think about this, but as soon as I opened it I fell in love. The quality is amazing the cuffs are nice and soft on the inside, and the bar seems nice and solid! Can't wait to use it. First time using anything like this.

Almost perfect

As I've been getting more into bondage, this thigh spreader was high on my Lovehoney wishlist. It was delivered discretely in a plain cardboard box and the bar was packaged in a clear plastic bag. I love this purple color. All the seams are strong and sturdy and the bar is made of metal, making it impossible for the wearer to bend it. The thigh cuffs are padded, so there's no chaffing and they feel nice around your thighs. The size is adjustable since they have velcro fastening. I'm a UK dress size 16 and they fit me well. I think it would be a great idea though to either make the cuffs longer or offer this product in plus size, so that it fits even more people. As we promptly found out, 12 inches can be quite uncomfortable for some. I suspect that it depends on the person's height, flexibility and balance. I'm 5'5'' with short legs but quite flexible. I had no problem standing or walking with the spreader on, if we ignore the fact that I looked very silly. My partner is a few inches taller than me, but could barely stand and couldn't walk when I put the spreader on him. We both enjoyed that it was so hard for him to do those basic things. This thigh spreader bar forces the wearer to maintain a quite vulnerable and at the very least somewhat uncomfortable position. It gives me full access to his butt and genitals, and that's great for spanking, cbt, teasing, or even sex. However, we are not perfectly happy with this product because of two reasons. Firstly, no matter how hard I pulled to fasten the velcro, the cuffs inevitably slid down. Furthermore, the cuffs and bar can rotate, making for a really uncomfortable and inefficient position. It takes away from the fun when we have to stop and re-adjust the fit often. Although I haven't needed to wash it yet, when it's time I'll need to hand wash it and scrub it with a brush, then place it somewhere hot to air-dry all the way in. Bottom line, it's a great product for its price. Although you might need to fiddle with it more often than desired, it's an efficient and fun restraint.

Must-Buy 100%

My OH purchased this to stop the inevitable vice of legs whilst receiving oral. Not only did it serve its purpose but the sensation of the bar reminded me of why I was in such a position which just excited me even more. The OH agreed my orgasms were more intense as he could continue without me trying to stop him.

Does what it says on the tin

I bought this to stop me from closing my legs when I’m having too much fun. I’d looked at the reviews before purchasing and saw that people had commented about the straps falling down when stood up but as I only use them laid down I cannot comment on that. They work brilliantly when laid down! The bar in the middle stops me for been able to close my legs and lets my OH continue without me moving! It’s a great addition to our growing sex toy and bondage collection!

Unable to close

This product is very good when it works properly. When it is in the right place, the wearer is unable to close their legs which is great as you can do as you please with their intimate areas. The problem is it can sometimes slip, which then makes it abit uncomfortable for the wearer and it also doesn’t have the desired affect

Not Great

The quality is there but they don't stay in place, they constantly slip and move even when you tighten them. We tried several times with it but gave up in the end. The other reviews seem to be ok so it may be ok for some. I personally wouldn't recommend

Best £10 we've ever spent

We bought this as part of the LH Black Friday sale 2020 and, using my LH Oh Points too, the final cost was exactly £10.We both enjoy mild bondage such as blindfolds, under bed restraints and wrist to thigh restraints so we thought we'd give this spreader bar a try. When my wife is approaching orgasm or is actually coming her reflex action is to close her legs so we hoped that this bar would prevent this and allow continued access for further stimulation, It does exactly that!The bar itself is a 12" long piece of steel covered in material and has a pair of well padded Velcro straps which are long enough to fit around my larger thighs (should we wish) but have enough adjustment to fit my wife too. The length is a perfect compromise, It is enough to keep the legs open for access but not at all uncomfortable, and the straps are very comfortable too.In use my wife loved the feeling of being so exposed and vulnerable and I loved the unrestricted access. She wore them for the best part of an hour with no discomfort and some amazing orgasms.The connection between the straps and the bar is flexible so it is possible, if pushed too hard, for the straps to slip round the legs allowing them to close but we didn't find this to be a problem when we used it.

Best £10 we've ever spent

We bought this as part of the LH Black Friday sale 2020 and, using my LH Oh Points too, the final cost was exactly £10.We both enjoy mild bondage such as blindfolds, under bed restraints and wrist to thigh restraints so we thought we'd give this spreader bar a try. When my wife is approaching orgasm or is actually coming her reflex action is to close her legs so we hoped that this bar would prevent this and allow continued access for further stimulation, It does exactly that!The bar itself is a 12" long piece of steel covered in material and has a pair of well padded Velcro straps which are long enough to fit around my larger thighs (should we wish) but have enough adjustment to fit my wife too. The length is a perfect compromise, It is enough to keep the legs open for access but not at all uncomfortable, and the straps are very comfortable too.In use my wife loved the feeling of being so exposed and vulnerable and I loved the unrestricted access. She wore them for the best part of an hour with no discomfort and some amazing orgasms.The connection between the straps and the bar is flexible so it is possible, if pushed too hard, for the straps to slip round the legs allowing them to close but we didn't find this to be a problem when we used it.

Awesome

Bought this to stop my wife shutting her legs whilst giving oral or just generally playing. She said it felt amazing and 100% stopped her from closing her legs which made her orgasm bigger and better. Even for me knowing her legs are not going to close is a winner

Fun and functional, great for the price

A great bit of fun and very practical. The metal bar is covered in red webbing with nice stitching and I don't see any chance of it coming out. It is a strong and heavy bar that is never going to bend. It serves a double function by not allowing the legs to close or indeed to open or move at all. The cuffs are lined with a soft velvet and a foam cushioning and the straps are fairly long. If you have larger thighs it is unlikely to fit around the upper thigh but above the knees works well. Because of basic body shape to use it on upper thighs unless you do it up very tight it is almost certainly going to slip but as a above knee restraint it is great. The only criticism is the red webbing material is fairly industrial and not particularly soft to the tough but hey most like it that way! And the foam cushion that lines the cuffs sticks out by a few millimetres meaning i can see it being hard to clean and easy to fray / wear in the future. It would be a massive improvement just to cover the edges of the cuffs but for the price you cant really complain, its a great bit of fun but if your expecting heavy usage often then it is going to suffer some wear and tear.

A good accessory

I got this spreader bar and wasn’t 100% pleased when it first arrived. The spread isn’t as long as I had hoped (but I would also now invest in the ankle one to compliment this one) and it didn’t go around my thighs as easily with being a slightly bigger woman. However, with some adjustments and play time, I’m much more happy with it and love the experience of not being able to move as much!

Almost perfect

As I've been getting more into bondage, this thigh spreader was high on my Lovehoney wishlist. It was delivered discretely in a plain cardboard box and the bar was packaged in a clear plastic bag. I love this purple color. All the seams are strong and sturdy and the bar is made of metal, making it impossible for the wearer to bend it. The thigh cuffs are padded, so there's no chaffing and they feel nice around your thighs. The size is adjustable since they have velcro fastening. I'm a UK dress size 16 and they fit me well. I think it would be a great idea though to either make the cuffs longer or offer this product in plus size, so that it fits even more people. As we promptly found out, 12 inches can be quite uncomfortable for some. I suspect that it depends on the person's height, flexibility and balance. I'm 5'5'' with short legs but quite flexible. I had no problem standing or walking with the spreader on, if we ignore the fact that I looked very silly. My partner is a few inches taller than me, but could barely stand and couldn't walk when I put the spreader on him. We both enjoyed that it was so hard for him to do those basic things. This thigh spreader bar forces the wearer to maintain a quite vulnerable and at the very least somewhat uncomfortable position. It gives me full access to his butt and genitals, and that's great for spanking, cbt, teasing, or even sex. However, we are not perfectly happy with this product because of two reasons. Firstly, no matter how hard I pulled to fasten the velcro, the cuffs inevitably slid down. Furthermore, the cuffs and bar can rotate, making for a really uncomfortable and inefficient position. It takes away from the fun when we have to stop and re-adjust the fit often. Although I haven't needed to wash it yet, when it's time I'll need to hand wash it and scrub it with a brush, then place it somewhere hot to air-dry all the way in. Bottom line, it's a great product for its price. Although you might need to fiddle with it more often than desired, it's an efficient and fun restraint.

Best £10 we've ever spent

We bought this as part of the LH Black Friday sale 2020 and, using my LH Oh Points too, the final cost was exactly £10.We both enjoy mild bondage such as blindfolds, under bed restraints and wrist to thigh restraints so we thought we'd give this spreader bar a try. When my wife is approaching orgasm or is actually coming her reflex action is to close her legs so we hoped that this bar would prevent this and allow continued access for further stimulation, It does exactly that!The bar itself is a 12" long piece of steel covered in material and has a pair of well padded Velcro straps which are long enough to fit around my larger thighs (should we wish) but have enough adjustment to fit my wife too. The length is a perfect compromise, It is enough to keep the legs open for access but not at all uncomfortable, and the straps are very comfortable too.In use my wife loved the feeling of being so exposed and vulnerable and I loved the unrestricted access. She wore them for the best part of an hour with no discomfort and some amazing orgasms.The connection between the straps and the bar is flexible so it is possible, if pushed too hard, for the straps to slip round the legs allowing them to close but we didn't find this to be a problem when we used it.

Awesome

Bought this to stop my wife shutting her legs whilst giving oral or just generally playing. She said it felt amazing and 100% stopped her from closing her legs which made her orgasm bigger and better. Even for me knowing her legs are not going to close is a winner

Fun and functional, great for the price

A great bit of fun and very practical. The metal bar is covered in red webbing with nice stitching and I don't see any chance of it coming out. It is a strong and heavy bar that is never going to bend. It serves a double function by not allowing the legs to close or indeed to open or move at all. The cuffs are lined with a soft velvet and a foam cushioning and the straps are fairly long. If you have larger thighs it is unlikely to fit around the upper thigh but above the knees works well. Because of basic body shape to use it on upper thighs unless you do it up very tight it is almost certainly going to slip but as a above knee restraint it is great. The only criticism is the red webbing material is fairly industrial and not particularly soft to the tough but hey most like it that way! And the foam cushion that lines the cuffs sticks out by a few millimetres meaning i can see it being hard to clean and easy to fray / wear in the future. It would be a massive improvement just to cover the edges of the cuffs but for the price you cant really complain, its a great bit of fun but if your expecting heavy usage often then it is going to suffer some wear and tear.

A good accessory

I got this spreader bar and wasn’t 100% pleased when it first arrived. The spread isn’t as long as I had hoped (but I would also now invest in the ankle one to compliment this one) and it didn’t go around my thighs as easily with being a slightly bigger woman. However, with some adjustments and play time, I’m much more happy with it and love the experience of not being able to move as much!

Almost perfect

As I've been getting more into bondage, this thigh spreader was high on my Lovehoney wishlist. It was delivered discretely in a plain cardboard box and the bar was packaged in a clear plastic bag. I love this purple color. All the seams are strong and sturdy and the bar is made of metal, making it impossible for the wearer to bend it. The thigh cuffs are padded, so there's no chaffing and they feel nice around your thighs. The size is adjustable since they have velcro fastening. I'm a UK dress size 16 and they fit me well. I think it would be a great idea though to either make the cuffs longer or offer this product in plus size, so that it fits even more people. As we promptly found out, 12 inches can be quite uncomfortable for some. I suspect that it depends on the person's height, flexibility and balance. I'm 5'5'' with short legs but quite flexible. I had no problem standing or walking with the spreader on, if we ignore the fact that I looked very silly. My partner is a few inches taller than me, but could barely stand and couldn't walk when I put the spreader on him. We both enjoyed that it was so hard for him to do those basic things. This thigh spreader bar forces the wearer to maintain a quite vulnerable and at the very least somewhat uncomfortable position. It gives me full access to his butt and genitals, and that's great for spanking, cbt, teasing, or even sex. However, we are not perfectly happy with this product because of two reasons. Firstly, no matter how hard I pulled to fasten the velcro, the cuffs inevitably slid down. Furthermore, the cuffs and bar can rotate, making for a really uncomfortable and inefficient position. It takes away from the fun when we have to stop and re-adjust the fit often. Although I haven't needed to wash it yet, when it's time I'll need to hand wash it and scrub it with a brush, then place it somewhere hot to air-dry all the way in. Bottom line, it's a great product for its price. Although you might need to fiddle with it more often than desired, it's an efficient and fun restraint.

Effective and comfortable at a great price

I do a lot of self-bondage and if I've set myself up with a fastened in place vibrator I have a really bad habit of closing my legs when I start to get close, no matter how much I try and stop myself. I bought these with the hope that they would prevent me from being able to do that, and I am happy to report that they were super effective! They were very comfortable to wear even for prolonged use and extremely secure, and helped make my sessions far more intense and controlled. Worth every penny!

Awesome

So usually in doggy my legs slide apart which is annoying. Thought I'd try this and it didn't disappoint. I have chunky thighs so was worried it wouldn't fit, but it did. Kept my legs in place. Next is to use it in different positions.

It’s okay

It doesn’t want to stay in place and the cuffs tend to rotate. I just felt it got in the way.

Effective and comfortable at a great price

I do a lot of self-bondage and if I've set myself up with a fastened in place vibrator I have a really bad habit of closing my legs when I start to get close, no matter how much I try and stop myself. I bought these with the hope that they would prevent me from being able to do that, and I am happy to report that they were super effective! They were very comfortable to wear even for prolonged use and extremely secure, and helped make my sessions far more intense and controlled. Worth every penny!

Best £10 we've ever spent

We bought this as part of the LH Black Friday sale 2020 and, using my LH Oh Points too, the final cost was exactly £10.We both enjoy mild bondage such as blindfolds, under bed restraints and wrist to thigh restraints so we thought we'd give this spreader bar a try. When my wife is approaching orgasm or is actually coming her reflex action is to close her legs so we hoped that this bar would prevent this and allow continued access for further stimulation, It does exactly that!The bar itself is a 12" long piece of steel covered in material and has a pair of well padded Velcro straps which are long enough to fit around my larger thighs (should we wish) but have enough adjustment to fit my wife too. The length is a perfect compromise, It is enough to keep the legs open for access but not at all uncomfortable, and the straps are very comfortable too.In use my wife loved the feeling of being so exposed and vulnerable and I loved the unrestricted access. She wore them for the best part of an hour with no discomfort and some amazing orgasms.The connection between the straps and the bar is flexible so it is possible, if pushed too hard, for the straps to slip round the legs allowing them to close but we didn't find this to be a problem when we used it.

Awesome

Bought this to stop my wife shutting her legs whilst giving oral or just generally playing. She said it felt amazing and 100% stopped her from closing her legs which made her orgasm bigger and better. Even for me knowing her legs are not going to close is a winner

Awesome

So usually in doggy my legs slide apart which is annoying. Thought I'd try this and it didn't disappoint. I have chunky thighs so was worried it wouldn't fit, but it did. Kept my legs in place. Next is to use it in different positions.

It’s okay

It doesn’t want to stay in place and the cuffs tend to rotate. I just felt it got in the way.

Effective and comfortable at a great price

I do a lot of self-bondage and if I've set myself up with a fastened in place vibrator I have a really bad habit of closing my legs when I start to get close, no matter how much I try and stop myself. I bought these with the hope that they would prevent me from being able to do that, and I am happy to report that they were super effective! They were very comfortable to wear even for prolonged use and extremely secure, and helped make my sessions far more intense and controlled. Worth every penny!

Awesome

So usually in doggy my legs slide apart which is annoying. Thought I'd try this and it didn't disappoint. I have chunky thighs so was worried it wouldn't fit, but it did. Kept my legs in place. Next is to use it in different positions.

It’s okay

It doesn’t want to stay in place and the cuffs tend to rotate. I just felt it got in the way.

Awesome

So usually in doggy my legs slide apart which is annoying. Thought I'd try this and it didn't disappoint. I have chunky thighs so was worried it wouldn't fit, but it did. Kept my legs in place. Next is to use it in different positions.

It’s okay

It doesn’t want to stay in place and the cuffs tend to rotate. I just felt it got in the way.

Effective and comfortable at a great price

I do a lot of self-bondage and if I've set myself up with a fastened in place vibrator I have a really bad habit of closing my legs when I start to get close, no matter how much I try and stop myself. I bought these with the hope that they would prevent me from being able to do that, and I am happy to report that they were super effective! They were very comfortable to wear even for prolonged use and extremely secure, and helped make my sessions far more intense and controlled. Worth every penny!

Best £10 we've ever spent

We bought this as part of the LH Black Friday sale 2020 and, using my LH Oh Points too, the final cost was exactly £10.We both enjoy mild bondage such as blindfolds, under bed restraints and wrist to thigh restraints so we thought we'd give this spreader bar a try. When my wife is approaching orgasm or is actually coming her reflex action is to close her legs so we hoped that this bar would prevent this and allow continued access for further stimulation, It does exactly that!The bar itself is a 12" long piece of steel covered in material and has a pair of well padded Velcro straps which are long enough to fit around my larger thighs (should we wish) but have enough adjustment to fit my wife too. The length is a perfect compromise, It is enough to keep the legs open for access but not at all uncomfortable, and the straps are very comfortable too.In use my wife loved the feeling of being so exposed and vulnerable and I loved the unrestricted access. She wore them for the best part of an hour with no discomfort and some amazing orgasms.The connection between the straps and the bar is flexible so it is possible, if pushed too hard, for the straps to slip round the legs allowing them to close but we didn't find this to be a problem when we used it.

Awesome

Bought this to stop my wife shutting her legs whilst giving oral or just generally playing. She said it felt amazing and 100% stopped her from closing her legs which made her orgasm bigger and better. Even for me knowing her legs are not going to close is a winner

Awesome

So usually in doggy my legs slide apart which is annoying. Thought I'd try this and it didn't disappoint. I have chunky thighs so was worried it wouldn't fit, but it did. Kept my legs in place. Next is to use it in different positions.

It’s okay

It doesn’t want to stay in place and the cuffs tend to rotate. I just felt it got in the way.

Effective and comfortable at a great price

I do a lot of self-bondage and if I've set myself up with a fastened in place vibrator I have a really bad habit of closing my legs when I start to get close, no matter how much I try and stop myself. I bought these with the hope that they would prevent me from being able to do that, and I am happy to report that they were super effective! They were very comfortable to wear even for prolonged use and extremely secure, and helped make my sessions far more intense and controlled. Worth every penny!

Best £10 we've ever spent

We bought this as part of the LH Black Friday sale 2020 and, using my LH Oh Points too, the final cost was exactly £10.We both enjoy mild bondage such as blindfolds, under bed restraints and wrist to thigh restraints so we thought we'd give this spreader bar a try. When my wife is approaching orgasm or is actually coming her reflex action is to close her legs so we hoped that this bar would prevent this and allow continued access for further stimulation, It does exactly that!The bar itself is a 12" long piece of steel covered in material and has a pair of well padded Velcro straps which are long enough to fit around my larger thighs (should we wish) but have enough adjustment to fit my wife too. The length is a perfect compromise, It is enough to keep the legs open for access but not at all uncomfortable, and the straps are very comfortable too.In use my wife loved the feeling of being so exposed and vulnerable and I loved the unrestricted access. She wore them for the best part of an hour with no discomfort and some amazing orgasms.The connection between the straps and the bar is flexible so it is possible, if pushed too hard, for the straps to slip round the legs allowing them to close but we didn't find this to be a problem when we used it.

Awesome

Bought this to stop my wife shutting her legs whilst giving oral or just generally playing. She said it felt amazing and 100% stopped her from closing her legs which made her orgasm bigger and better. Even for me knowing her legs are not going to close is a winner

Awesome little beginner!

My partner and i have been experimenting with all kinds of restraints and toys latley and need something to keep her legs spread during intense moments of our play. We came across the 12inch purple rains spreader and decided we'd give it a go. As always with lovehoney products it arrived in a discreet box with super speedy delivery! We found the padded velcro pads super easy to use and comfortable around the thighs. The steel bar is super sturdy and allows no movement and also comes in handy as a handle for certain positions. All in all great product for a beginner type level of bondage would definitely recommend!

Too small

I was excited to receive this but when it did arrive I found that it would not actually fit around my thighs. I am only a size 16 so did expect it to fit, but it did not which was very disappointing. The material did feel nice and if it fit around my legs I'm sure it would have been a great product.