Inspire Vibrating Silicone Dilator Kit (3 Pieces)

Thank you for existing

So, it's been years since I've used these, but I am so happy I gave them a chance. I had primary vaginismus, nothing was going into that hooha no matter what I did. I was diagnosed by my gyno pretty quickly. He suggested I used those big sets of ugly, hollow, plastic dilators with the detachable handles. Anyway, I started using them, it felt very much like exactly what the situation was: I was trying to treat an issue I had instead of just enjoying myself. The plastic was too hard, uncomfortable and honestly, there was nothing sexy about it. I didn't look forward to using them. I would just dread the pain and fear that came with any sort of penetration, but I was determined. I worked up to the last two sizes, but from there I just couldn't progress at all and I lost all hope in recovery. I was just stuck there for ages and so I started to give up. I was low on cash at the time, but decided to just impulse buy this set, so that I wasn't just giving up without a fight. Wow! It wasn't a mistake! These are smooth, firm but soft enough to feel comfortable. The vibrator helped so, so much with diffusing the pain that I got down there on penetration. I actually felt like I was trying to please myself after a while and would get excited to pull these out of my drawer. The colour, the design and the material were just perfectly what I needed to feel sexy, comfortable ,and to think this wasn't just about some big problem I needed to fix. Fast forward to a couple years later, now I have a whole collection of toys. Honestly, I'm not sure if these are what everyone would need, but they really helped me out. Associating the dilators with positive things really helped me and so I do think the appearance of my toys does play a role in my own pleasure now.

Amazing, worth it

I was a virgin and struggled since I was sixteen to lose my virginity. I was afraid I was too tight. I did attempt to have sex with two different guys and it never worked. When I turned 20 I decided to see what I could do and I bought this product. The best thing I ever did. I started with the smallest and it reassured me that I can fit something, and that I just needed to be stretched. I stretched myself daily for around 15 mins per dilator. And I recently lost my virginity with minimal pain. This was a godsend. My sexual anxiety over this is now gone and I’m ready to be more adventurous.

Really Helpful as a Virgin

This little kit is really great! My boyfriend and I had been trying to have insertive sex for 3 months, and I had always been too tight or too anxious. I got this hoping it would help my tightness (and also a much-needed vibe upgrade), and it was perfect! I kind of found it amusing since I didn't get as much pleasure as I did out of it since insertive stuff may not be my favourite type of masturbation, so it was kind of like a little daily routine where I could just relax in bed, slowly stretch myself out, and leave it in (as it said in the instructions) and do a face mask and watch some TV! The two dilators are soft and satiny, which was nice since my other toys feel the same way! The only complaint or caution I would give is that the mini vibe is made of a hard plastic material, so I would only recommend using it with the dilators and not on its own. I will say as a tight person it's a great way to adjust! Also the vibe really helped kind of numb out the slight pain from the stretching! Not to mention as a person who lives in a college dorm with super thin walls, the vibe is surprisingly quiet! Plus, it's the most adorable shade of pink and it's so cute! Can't recommend enough!

Useful for those who are tight

Bought this kit from a different site because I didn't know Lovehoney had these in stock, but I would highly recommend this set for virgins who are preparing themselves for penetration and struggle to even get two fingers into themselves or any others who are struggling with uncomfortable tightness. The material itself is very smooth, so the dilator can glide in easily and the loop at the end of it makes for an easier hold. The vibrator is not strong by any means, but is sufficient in making the experience a little more pleasurable. I personally would've liked for a bigger circumference towards the start of the dilator as I can't reach the thicker part of the dilator due to my cervix. It is a bit too long for it's girth in my experience. Overall, this set was incredibly useful and I would highly recommend this to anyone who is considering purchasing this.

Good for beginners

Dilators are usually recommended as part of treatment for vaginismus and vulvodynia. These dilators are good if you haven't had much experience with using dilators before, or have struggled in the past with the basic plastic ones that you usually get prescribed on the NHS. The fact that these dilators are made from silicone is a big plus as the material feels very smooth and it's easy to clean. The vibrator, which is inserted into the dilator, only has only one low speed which although quiet (which is a plus!) was not powerful enough to feel pleasurable. Unlike the dilators it feels quite cheap, made from plastic, and I wouldn't recommend using the vibrator on its own. However, I think the vibrations do help with making the dilators easier to insert. The tapered ends are also helpful with insertion, and it means you can start off with just inserting the tip of the dilator rather than the whole length. This is also what distinguishes these dilators from ordinary vibrators/dildos, which tend to have more powerful vibrations, but may be more difficult to insert. The one downside is that due to the length of the dilators, it's difficult to insert far enough to get to the widest part, so there might be a point where you can't progress further and might need to look for a different brand. At this point I progressed to just using a normal vibrator instead. I've progressed with my dilator therapy to the point that I don't need to use these anymore, but they were definitely helpful when I felt that my progress using plastic ones had plateaued. So if you are struggling with painful sex due to vaginismus or vulvodynia (and have sought medical advice) these are worth trying.

Good for beginners

Dilators are usually recommended as part of treatment for vaginismus and vulvodynia. These dilators are good if you haven't had much experience with using dilators before, or have struggled in the past with the basic plastic ones that you usually get prescribed on the NHS.The fact that these dilators are made from silicone is a big plus, as the material feels very smooth and it's easy to clean.The vibrator, which is inserted into the dilator, only has only one low speed, which although quiet (which is a plus!) was not powerful enough to feel pleasurable. Unlike the dilators it feels quite cheap, made from plastic, and I wouldn't recommend using the vibrator on its own. However, I think the vibrations do help with making the dilators easier to insert. The tapered ends are also helpful with insertion, and it means you can start off with just inserting the tip of the dilator rather than the whole length. This is also what distinguishes these dilators from ordinary vibrators/dildos, which tend to have more powerful vibrations but may be more difficult to insert.The one downside is that due to the length of the dilators, it's difficult to insert far enough to get to the widest part, so there might be a point where you can't progress further and might need to look for a different brand. At this point I progressed to just using a normal vibrator instead. I've progressed with my dilator therapy to the point that I don't need to use these anymore, but they were definitely helpful when I felt that my progress using plastic ones had plateaued. So if you are struggling with painful sex due to vaginismus or vulvodynia (and have sought medical advice) these are worth trying.

Thank you for existing

So, it's been years since I've used these but I am so happy I gave them a chance.I had primary vaginismus, nothing was going into that hooha no matter what I did. I was diagnosed by my gyno pretty quickly. He suggested I used those big sets of ugly, hollow, plastic dilators with the detachable handles. Anyway, I started using them, it felt very much like exactly what the situation was: I was trying to treat an issue I had instead of just enjoying myself. The plastic was too hard, uncomfortable and honestly, there was nothing sexy about it. I didn't look forward to using them, I would just dread the pain and fear that came with any sort of penetration but I was determined.I worked up to the last two sizes but from there I just couldn't progress at all and I lost all hope in recovery. I was just stuck there for ages and so I started to give up. I was low on cash at the time but decided to just impulse buy this set so that I wasn't just giving up without a fight. Wow! It wasn't a mistake! These are smooth, firm but soft enough to feel comfortable. The vibrator helped so, so much with diffusing the pain that I got down there on penetration. I actually felt like I was trying to please myself after awhile and would get excited to pull these out of my drawer. The colour, the design and the material were just perfectly what I needed to feel sexy, comfortable and to think this wasn't just about some big problem I needed to fix.Fast forward to a couple years later, now I have a whole collection of toys. Honestly, I'm not sure if these are what everyone would need but they really helped me out. Associating the dilators with positive things really helped me and so I do think the appearance of my toys does play a role in my own pleasure now.

Amazing, worth it

I was a virgin and struggled since I was sixteen to lose my virginity. I was afraid I was too tight. I did attempt to have sex with two different guys and it never worked. When I turned 20 I decided to see what I could do and I brought this product. The best thing I ever did. I started with the smallest and it reassured me that I can fit something, and that I just needed to be stretched. I stretched myself daily for around 15mins per dilator. And I recently lost my virginity with minimal pain. This was a god send. My sexual anxiety over this is now gone and I’m ready to be more adventurous :)

Really Helpful as a Virgin

This little kit is really great! My boyfriend and I had been trying to have insertive sex for 3 months, and I had always been too tight or too anxious. I got this hoping it would help my tightness (and also a much needed vibe upgrade), and it was perfect! I kind of found it amusing since I didn't get as much pleasure as I did out of it since insertive stuff may not be my favorite type of masturbation, so it was kind of like a little daily routine where I could just relax in bed, slowly stretch myself out, and leave it in (as it said in the instructions) and do a face mask and watch some TV! The two dilators are soft and satiny, which was nice since my other toys feel the same way! The only complaint or caution I would give is that the mini vibe is made of a hard plastic material, so I would only recommend using it with the dilators and not on its own. I will say as a tight person it's a great way to adjust! Also the vibe really helped kind of numb out the slight pain from the stretching! Not to mention as a person who lives in a college dorm with super thin walls, the vibe is surprisingly quiet! Plus, it's the most adorable shade of pink and its so cute! Can't recommend enough!

Useful for those who are tight

Bought this kit from a different site because I didn't know Lovehoney had these in stock but I would highly recommend this set for virgins who are preparing themselves for penetration and struggle to even get two fingers into themselves or any others who are struggling with uncomfortable tightness. The material itself is very smooth so the dilator can glide in easily and the loop at the end of it makes for an easier hold. The vibrator is not strong by any means but is sufficient in making the experience a little more pleasurable. I personally would've liked for a bigger circumference towards the start of the dilator as I can't reach the thicker part of the dilator due to my cervix. It is a bit too long for it's girth in my experience. Overall this set was incredibly useful and I would highly recommend this to anyone who is considering purchasing this.

Good for beginners

Dilators are usually recommended as part of treatment for vaginismus and vulvodynia. These dilators are good if you haven't had much experience with using dilators before, or have struggled in the past with the basic plastic ones that you usually get prescribed on the NHS.The fact that these dilators are made from silicone is a big plus, as the material feels very smooth and it's easy to clean.The vibrator, which is inserted into the dilator, only has only one low speed, which although quiet (which is a plus!) was not powerful enough to feel pleasurable. Unlike the dilators it feels quite cheap, made from plastic, and I wouldn't recommend using the vibrator on its own. However, I think the vibrations do help with making the dilators easier to insert. The tapered ends are also helpful with insertion, and it means you can start off with just inserting the tip of the dilator rather than the whole length. This is also what distinguishes these dilators from ordinary vibrators/dildos, which tend to have more powerful vibrations but may be more difficult to insert.The one downside is that due to the length of the dilators, it's difficult to insert far enough to get to the widest part, so there might be a point where you can't progress further and might need to look for a different brand. At this point I progressed to just using a normal vibrator instead. I've progressed with my dilator therapy to the point that I don't need to use these anymore, but they were definitely helpful when I felt that my progress using plastic ones had plateaued. So if you are struggling with painful sex due to vaginismus or vulvodynia (and have sought medical advice) these are worth trying.

Thank you for existing

So, it's been years since I've used these but I am so happy I gave them a chance.I had primary vaginismus, nothing was going into that hooha no matter what I did. I was diagnosed by my gyno pretty quickly. He suggested I used those big sets of ugly, hollow, plastic dilators with the detachable handles. Anyway, I started using them, it felt very much like exactly what the situation was: I was trying to treat an issue I had instead of just enjoying myself. The plastic was too hard, uncomfortable and honestly, there was nothing sexy about it. I didn't look forward to using them, I would just dread the pain and fear that came with any sort of penetration but I was determined.I worked up to the last two sizes but from there I just couldn't progress at all and I lost all hope in recovery. I was just stuck there for ages and so I started to give up. I was low on cash at the time but decided to just impulse buy this set so that I wasn't just giving up without a fight. Wow! It wasn't a mistake! These are smooth, firm but soft enough to feel comfortable. The vibrator helped so, so much with diffusing the pain that I got down there on penetration. I actually felt like I was trying to please myself after awhile and would get excited to pull these out of my drawer. The colour, the design and the material were just perfectly what I needed to feel sexy, comfortable and to think this wasn't just about some big problem I needed to fix.Fast forward to a couple years later, now I have a whole collection of toys. Honestly, I'm not sure if these are what everyone would need but they really helped me out. Associating the dilators with positive things really helped me and so I do think the appearance of my toys does play a role in my own pleasure now.

Amazing, worth it

I was a virgin and struggled since I was sixteen to lose my virginity. I was afraid I was too tight. I did attempt to have sex with two different guys and it never worked. When I turned 20 I decided to see what I could do and I brought this product. The best thing I ever did. I started with the smallest and it reassured me that I can fit something, and that I just needed to be stretched. I stretched myself daily for around 15mins per dilator. And I recently lost my virginity with minimal pain. This was a god send. My sexual anxiety over this is now gone and I’m ready to be more adventurous :)

Really Helpful as a Virgin

This little kit is really great! My boyfriend and I had been trying to have insertive sex for 3 months, and I had always been too tight or too anxious. I got this hoping it would help my tightness (and also a much needed vibe upgrade), and it was perfect! I kind of found it amusing since I didn't get as much pleasure as I did out of it since insertive stuff may not be my favorite type of masturbation, so it was kind of like a little daily routine where I could just relax in bed, slowly stretch myself out, and leave it in (as it said in the instructions) and do a face mask and watch some TV! The two dilators are soft and satiny, which was nice since my other toys feel the same way! The only complaint or caution I would give is that the mini vibe is made of a hard plastic material, so I would only recommend using it with the dilators and not on its own. I will say as a tight person it's a great way to adjust! Also the vibe really helped kind of numb out the slight pain from the stretching! Not to mention as a person who lives in a college dorm with super thin walls, the vibe is surprisingly quiet! Plus, it's the most adorable shade of pink and its so cute! Can't recommend enough!

Useful for those who are tight

Bought this kit from a different site because I didn't know Lovehoney had these in stock but I would highly recommend this set for virgins who are preparing themselves for penetration and struggle to even get two fingers into themselves or any others who are struggling with uncomfortable tightness. The material itself is very smooth so the dilator can glide in easily and the loop at the end of it makes for an easier hold. The vibrator is not strong by any means but is sufficient in making the experience a little more pleasurable. I personally would've liked for a bigger circumference towards the start of the dilator as I can't reach the thicker part of the dilator due to my cervix. It is a bit too long for it's girth in my experience. Overall this set was incredibly useful and I would highly recommend this to anyone who is considering purchasing this.